Totally feel for you Bruce. It is a bit of guesswork mixed with trial and error, slides backward and sometimes no progress.
It's tough to know if you'll see a drastic improvement from one pill. They say we only block two of the many types of histamine receptors and before noticeable benefits have been achieved many of them have to be taken regularily to get ahead of the mediator release and competitively inhibit at the receptor level. So it might take a higher dose of H1 and 2 blockers together before you see a big change.
But it might not
we are all different
I'm not sure what will happen for you but I can tell you a bit of what's been happening for me;
I am currently struggling with a similar conundrum of: are some of my meds blocking the reactions to other meds? Would seem a bit much for that to be happening from just one medication competing against itself, but is theoretically possible
I started many meds at once in haste out of desperation. Won't ever know if it was the best move ever or was foolish but it did get me breathing again. Since then, I've had to get to as 'Steady a state as possible' for making the tiniest of Changes in either direction. Which, like you said, is essentially impossible with our condition and all the daily triggers.
Most of my days are spent thinking, did I react to this or that, or this,this and that? Over time after multiple attempts, I can sometimes draw vague conclusions. Sometimes they are grotesquely apparent.
With med changes, if I get mild symptoms I usually proceed with either the increase or decrease for a period of 7-10 days to see
If my body was just protesting to the change itself or indeed has issue with it. Tapering every med gives me reactions but with some these go back to baseline after a week.
If the symptoms stay, I go back up or down if that makes sense
If I have dangerous symptoms, the med or food or any possible culprits are stricken from my list
I think if I was in your situation and on no meds and wanting to try some, id do part of what I did last year, id stop all supplements and unecessary meds (that was the first piece of advice given to me
By my mcas doc) then I'd do as you are and go one at a
Time but bearing in mind if that doesn't work,
I might have to try higher doses or combos. Would be ideal if you could get an mcas doc weigh in but I realize you are so limited right now. I cut my food down to rice and bananas. Wasn't sure they were my safe foods but wanted to start somewhere.
I'm currently lowering my doses but bearing in mind that what I might need is to go up on them later. It takes so long right now I can only
Make a change every 4-6 weeks with the other random triggers and because my baseline is semi stable;though its not my ideal, like you said, I do not want to go backward.
In general going up or down on meds has not seemed to make me irreversably hypersensitive, but my contrast and garlic anaphylaxes were the two points in my course that triggered spirals. So for me, severe reactions seem to have set me back.
So glad you're sharing your experience as I can relate to much of your story.
I hope the neighbours become less hazardous. I dream of more isolated living and a custom built house which id likely have to tent outside of :S
Don't give up