Hi guys, I wanted to share a few thoughts and update you on how things have panned out.
I would first like to say most of the hurt that I have had in the past was due to the fact that my friend would not listen, she made her mind up and that was that.
That part was very hurtful but then she went around sharing with people I know that I was crazy..or had a mental illness or what ever.  That part is unacceptable.  I believe everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but you should not share your opinions as facts.
I have moved on and eventually those people will find out the truth.  I have made some new friends and still have an old friend that I am very close with.  So I guess over all it all worked out and my eyes have been open to somethings that I always overlooked.  
I have learned that people will treat you the way you allow them to treat you...