Hi meemshutchins,
Like you, my oncologist (who offered to coordinate my care with Dr. Afrin) was "on the fence" as far as acknowledging MCAS as a diagnosis. He said it didn't mean it didn't exist, it just does not have the WHO consensuses "yet".
I happened to have a severe case diverticulitis and ended up seeing Dr. Greenberger (GI specialist) at Brigham who wanted me to see Dr. Castells while I was there (couldn't happen as she was out of country). I made an appointment last Dec. and she confirmed my diagnosis. One of my markers was a very high chromA level. I don't have carcinoid nor do I have pheo.
I mean no disrespect to you, Meem, and I make NO excuses for Dr. Afrin on that day, but I have seen him 3 times, and have countless emails from him "teaching" me so many things to help me because no one else would. I recently went through something that was awful and he personally contacted my doctor here and helped him understand what happened and how dangerous it would be for me to go though a procedure they thought I HAD to have. I want to write more, but I don't want to "hijack" your post! So forgive me if I have offended you.
Dr. Afrin CAN NOT commit to any diagnosis for your daughter because he is NOT licensed to treat patients under the age of 18. Please understand that it isn't that he does not want to, but he could loose his license. It's no different than a teacher who is licensed to teach elementary school and can not teach high school because they are not certified. If he gave your daughter a diagnosis and he missed something, he would be liable. By doing what he did, he was trying to give you "a suggestion" in hopes that you would follow up with someone who could help confirm your diagnosis. Medically he can't say "your daughter has MCAS" but he can say "If she was my patient I would diagnose MCAS." Does that make sense? He calls it "medical jargon". Unfortunately it's legal jargon as well.
Dr. Castells is on overload!! She is difficult to reach. Here are my suggestions. 1) Try to email her. If you don't have her email, PM me and I will give it to you. 2) Have you left a message with the triage nurse? If not, do so. They will always call you back within 24 hours. 3) Call and specifically ask for Verilla. She will almost always "make sure any issue" is resolved.
I hope this helps and I hope and pray that you and your daughter are doing better and you have received some answers by now!
Good luck hugs to you both, Lynda