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03/20/11 at 00:47:45
 
Does anyone suffer from migraine, if so do you relate it to your mast cell activity? What medications do you take for immediate relief of a migraine, especially anything  that might be in light of a mast cell condition rather than what is generally recommended for migraine? My sister has been recommended by her neurologist to take antihistamines preventatively for her severe chronic migraine, but I have had an allergist tell me that they don't work for migraine. Just interested to see what the experience is here, and grateful if anyone can shed any light on the possible mast cell connection.

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Reply #1 - 03/20/11 at 07:20:16
 
Ruth,

   One of Brieann's symptoms is headaches.  The Dr.'s feel this is related to Brie's other symptoms... although the neurological symptoms of this disease are not well researched.  She also has the hyper somnolence, decreased in cognitive ability and retention of memory, among other things.  These all seem so intertwined with her other symptoms... but who really knows.  We have also questioned if they are "Migraine" in nature... but we just don't know.  The headaches have decreased very greatly since Brie has started all of the medications used for MCAD.... H1 and H2 antihistamines, Gastrocrom, etc.
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Reply #2 - 03/20/11 at 10:11:32
 
Hi Ruth!

My migraines improved a lot since I began antihistamines.  But there are days....  Shocked

I've found that when I hit in quickly with medicine that it will more often than not resolve itself quickly.  Before my masto came out of hiding and I got onto daily antihistamines I'd get these migraines for 2, 3, 4, and even 5 days and I found that once those nerves got themselves involved and irritated and even inflammed then it was a matter of putting ice packs and sleeping and constant medicating and just having to bear it out cause nothing would work.  After I got on daily antihistamines the majority of my headaches, when I'd get them, would resolve quickly.  But one of the things I noticed is that some of my headaches were tension headaches and others were I think masto related.  Those that were masto related often had this extrasensitive vision to accompany it.  I'd go out into the sunlight and "feel" that the movement of my eyes hurt and this was one of my signals that a headache was on its way.  I also noticed that when I'm doing a lot of reacting that I get this same issue, so this helped me to associate this feeling with the masto headache, whereas the tension headache was definitely muscular.   Nevertheless, the use of the antihistamines helped me to be more responsive to the pain meds.  

This showed me that regardless of the source of the headache, the mast cells were involved in it.  Since then I've learned that pain can trigger mast cells to degranulate and that degranulation of mast cells and the histamine release end up involved in the pain receptors of the neurological system.  So, you have a situation that's like a two edged knife and both sides are cutting at the same time.  So, regardless of what came first that chicken or the egg, you still have mast cell triggering involved.

So, since you're working with a child, you need to talk with your doctors about this and work up an effective means of dealing with your son's headaches.  He's also got to help you.  Since he's already on antihistamine treatment, you may not have to up his meds, but then, would it hurt to add in an extra one specifically for this purpose?  It' worth talking with your doctors about this.  Then you need to use an effective pain medication in combination right at the very first sign of the pain.  Like I said, my vision is a telltale sign for me and also the feeling of my forehead muscles hurting.  Then you should instruct your son that at the very first feeling of something not right the he takes this combination of the two meds.   And, if the pain does not improve, then about half hour later, another dose of the pain med and then if that doesn't help half hour later one more.  

However, Ruth, this has got to be doctor involved for these are instructions from doctors of how to deal with migraines in that you hit in hard and fast at the first sign, but they've got to accompany this not only because you are using a lot of over the counter pain meds, but also due to the fact that your son is a child and reacts differently and has the need of lower doses.  

Another reason you need doctor involvement is due to the types of pain medication you'd have to use.  I would never use tylenol for this kind of thing!   Tylenol is KNOWN for being toxic to the kidneys and it's also not so very effective as a pain medication.  I've never liked using it on my kids for fevers either for it's not effective as a fever reducer either.  Personally I don't like Tylenol but I know that this is one pain med that doesn't trigger us.   However, for this situation I'd not use it unless there really was no other medication I could use.   Instead I would be using either aspirin or an NSAID.  

Okay, aspirin and NSAIDs are on the NO NO list.  Lisa, how can you say to use it then?   Well, according to Dr. Luis Escribano in a talk he gave at the 2009 TMS conference and according to research done on us, only about 10% of us are really sensitive to the use of these meds.  I know that I don't react.  I've used aspirin and NSAIDs without a problem.  However, I think that the real reason we are told not to use them is not because we ARE reactive, but because there is the POTENTIAL TO BE reactive.  And that's where the danger lies for us.  And Ruth, this is why you MUST have your doctors involved in this for they need to help you find an EFFECTIVE means of helping your son when he gets one of these.  I don't think that Tylenol is as safe as they want us to believe.  It's known to kill off too many kidneys and for a child to be using that as a means to combate a migraine, it's just not effective.

Ruth, I don't know if you can get Dipirona there in Singapore, but I would check this out with your doctors.  It's really a very effective pain reliever and it doesn't seem to be as much of a trouble maker as the other NSAIDs can be.  It's been banned in the US but it's used all over the world.  We use it here in Brazil and I was IMPRESSED at how effective it was for me with my surgical pain with the open heart surgery I went through!!   I was relatively pain free following surgery, there in the ICU and while in the hospital!!!  I couldn't use any narcotics and my doctors used this inconjunction with tylenol and again, tylenol is recognized by doctors not to be that effective of a pain reliever.  It just doesn't call all the allergic reacting which is why they use it.  (I think it's also a lot of advertising too).   But this is a medication that I've learned to have a lot more faith in once I came to Brazil and saw how widely it's used here.  

So, see what your doctors can do to help your son.  I hope you can find some real answers for him !!!

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Reply #3 - 03/20/11 at 12:36:56
 
Hi Ruth ,

I agree with Lisa that Tylenol ( paracetamol ) is not effective for migraines and is a weak analgesic.

Migraines need investigating as they should be formally diagnosed as other conditions can mimic migraines .

Any back of the head headaches should be investigated as they have higher risk for strokes , migraines take various forms , with different treatments . Other conditions such as tempoural arteritis need diagnosisng and treating . So the cause of new headaches should not be assumed . This also applies in the case of a change in the location , severity of headache . A sudden headache should always be investigated in ED . Photophobia with or without classic meneigitis symptoms should also be investigated .

Unf , a headache is only just a headache when its been diagnosed as such .

No mast patient should take codine . But codine itself can cause headaches .

My headaches can be mast cell or migraine . In migraine I get visual aura , in the form of lights in my vision . if I medicate it and lie down i can avoid time in a darkened room . The length of my migraines is reduced by antihistamines .  Non migraine headaches respond quickly to antihistamines .  So in this respect I am similar to Lisa .

I do tylenol (in the hope it will help ) antisickness and antihistamines . With a second round of anti histamines half an hour later . Dehydration is my biggest headache maker . With diabetes and sweats from syncope I have to remain well hydrated . Dehydration also causes muscle spasms in me, which leads to headaches through the tension building in my neck muscles .

histamine swells my muscles including my neck . This is where antihistamines work for me . There is some early work on the new , type 3 receptor being involoved in increasing pain . Receptor one is well documented in pain as increasing pain . So antihistamine type 1's are known as suitable and appropriate in a pain killing ( anlagesic ) plan .  

Once medical consideration has occured some non medication interventions have been found useful .

Tension headaches respond well to cool packs on the forehead  ( not in cold urticaria / angiodeama ) .

I hope this helps Smiley

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Reply #4 - 03/20/11 at 14:24:02
 
Thank you SO much for your replies. While I have a supportive doctor, I feel so much like I have to go it alone with a lot of these issues, until I found the support of this forum.  The medical support I am getting is so inadequate in dealing with the details of things like this.
We saw a neurologist over a year ago now, when the migraines and headaches were more frequent, he did an MRI which was clear, and told us there was nothing more to do, take paracetamol (3 or 4 times a week at that point, the doctor saw no probelm with that  Shocked).  I was hoping he would at least prescribe one of the newer drugs (forgotten what they are, but I know they can stop a migraine in it's tracks very effectively), but no.  He did suggest Panadol extra, which my doctor disagreed with because it contains caffeine.  I know I am not unique in my experiences, of every doctor I see giving advice that conflicts with every other one, and none of them really saying anything useful, but it is SO frustrating.

So as I watched him in absolute agony last night, with the worst migriane he has had in a long time, possibly ever, I figured there has to be more I can do for immediate relief. Lisa I will look for that pain relief you mentioned, I've never heard of it.  He used to take Neurofen, and I used to take Neurofen Migraine for mine, and found it worked really well taken early enough, but I was advised not to give him ibuprofen. Maybe I should go back to that. The panadol last night just did not cut it.  But I do want to consider extra antihistamines and see if that helps - which ones specifically would you recommend? Would Benadryl be a better option for faster effect? Or liquid zyrtec?

I need to go back over the details of your replies, and go back to the articles I have about migraine. He does have classic migraine, with aura, and we are still working on him understanding the need to medicate quickly. Dehyrdation has been a problem, but I think he has improved with avoiding that and his headaches have lessened. But I do want to try to understand where histamine and mast cell activity might be playing a role.  When I can't even get the doctors to take seriously the possibility of a mast cell disorder they just look at headache and migraine and treat the symptoms in the traditional way. It's pretty scary, as many of you know, watching your child in such pain, being able to do nothing about it, and knowing first-hand how agonising that pain can be. He eventually fell asleep then slept for 13 hours, but I didn't, with those concerns you raise Josie about severe headache, and having been through my mother having a sub-arachnoid haemorrhage from a ruptured aneurysm. It's hard not to think about things like that when the pain is so severe, followed by sleep, even though it is unlikely, and he has had  that MRI which was clear.  I guess the aura gives the confidence that it is migraine not something worse.  

Much as I appreciate my doctors support, she really isn't getting down to dealing with things beyond what she already knows.  She is also inconsistent with what she says at times, so I'm not getting far in really finetuning an approach to medications with her.  I may try a different doctor at the same clinic, he called me recently with the latest blood test results and seemed pretty thorough and willing to talk through things with me, and it might be time to push for the referral to the specialist Lisa found out about for me.

Thanks again for all your support.
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Reply #5 - 03/20/11 at 20:36:23
 
Ruth;
   I have most recently (at the advice of Brie's Dr.'s) tried both Benadryl and Advil with Brie's headaches.  I use the Benadryl  when she is having several symtpoms... especially the severe GI cramping, angioedema, etc. along with the headache. But I save the Benadryl as the last resort as she is "out like a light" shortly after taking this.  I gave her the Advil the other night when she had one of her SEVERE headaches and it seemed to work quite quickly.  I had been staying away from this drug since NSAID's can often cause further problems for a Mast Cell Disorder patient... but it did work for her and thankfully she did not have a negative response to it. I have never had much luck with the Tylenol relieveing her pain.

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Reply #6 - 03/21/11 at 02:07:16
 
Now here's a bit of the back story to this migraine.  You might know I have had my son on a low histamine diet for months now, but at times we both lose our resolve and get a bit slack on it, especially when a doctor puts doubt  in our minds. The recent consult with the dermatologist did more harm than good really, mainly in undermining Cameron's confidence in what I am saying. At his advice we tried a month of antihistamines, just zyrtec daily, which we had never done before as a preventative rather than symptom relief. But at the end of the month, when his skin and headaches have been really good for several months now, my doctor said he should go off them if he was stable, and Cameron wanted to go off them, and at the same time eased up on the low histamine diet. I gave in, my resolve weakened, but I also felt it might be time he saw for himself the difference the diet and medications make. Within about 10 days his skin had flared (all over itching and rashes, mostly face and upper body), bad enough that he started himself on the zyrtec again on Friday, forgot to take one on Sunday, then had this migraine on Sunday afternoon.  He had also eaten a lot more histamine foods in recent days.

Lisa your explanation about your headache patterns makes sense, and fits with what I have read again about migraine, that there is a bit of a self-perpetuating loop with the pain and whatever is triggering the migraine, and the mast cells reacting.  Chicken and egg, but the bottom line is histamine can be invovled and antihistamines can help. I am not sure what to think about NSAIDs now, they are what is recommended for migraine. Is the concern with them about anaphylaxis, or are there other consequences to be wary of in high risk people?  

The other bit of the story from this episode is that when the migraine started we had visitors so Cameron took a tablet, followed by another  half an hour or so later when the first wasn't helping. Once I realised what was going on he told me he had taken them, but I assumed it was panadol (paracetamol, same as tylenol I think)  because that's what he has been taking lately. It was only today when we talked about it that I found out it was actually Neurofen (ibuprofen, same as Advil I think). His headache got a lot worse before it got better - just the natural course of it, or did the neurofen actually add to his problems before it helped?  

Thanks Kim for the ideas about medications, I will think about the benadryl idea, or a fast acting antihistamine like zyrtec drops, and maybe the ibuprofen for when he has a migraine, but not as a regular option for the more everyday headaches.  He has never taken benadryl before, so I'm thinking we should be trying it out sometime, but not when he's in a full-blown migraine?  Maybe when his skin is really bothering him, which it is at the moment, so that we can see how he responds to it.

So for now we go back to low histamine diet, zyrtec daily, until we see a doctor to go over it again - just bracing myself for another round.  I would like to add zantac, but I think I will talk to a doctor about it.  Thanks again for the advice and ideas, any more gratefully received!
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Reply #7 - 03/21/11 at 02:29:52
 
Hi Ruth,

Two things to know about NSAIDs...

1. Some people are genuinely allergic

2. Like aspirin, NSAIDs are blood thinners

Although I took ibuprofen for years with no problems (before I knew I had a mast cell disorder), #2 keeps me from taking NSAIDs.  Even on "normal" days, I bleed and bruise very easily.  The bleeding itself is not a major problem... it's the process of repairing broken capillaries. One product of the coagulation cascade is thrombin, which is a known mast cell degranulator!  A couple of months ago I experimented with turmeric (another a blood thinner... although I didn't know that when I started the experiment).  After two days it gave me a nosebleed and dizziness that I couldn't get rid of with antihistamines.  Not good!  I'm sure there are some mast cell patients who can tolerate NSAIDs... but I don't think I'm one of them.  If #1 and #2 don't apply to your son, then I think it's worth experimenting a little.

BTW... that's great that your son noticed the difference and went back on the Zyrtec himself!  He's old enough that he should be taking more and more responsibility for his own health.

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Reply #8 - 03/21/11 at 03:00:23
 
Thanks Heather. I hated letting him learn the hard way, especially where health is concerned, but sometimes teenagers will only learn that way.  And without a diagnosis it is hard to insist that this is without a doubt the way he has to go.   However this experience has convinced him.

He has had severe bruising in the past, so I am wary of the NSAIDs, on the other hand if he hasn't had an allergic reaction then maybe occasionally it's OK for the severe migraines, which aren't very frequent at the moment.
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Reply #9 - 03/21/11 at 04:44:06
 
Hi Ruth ,

i didnt mean to worry you . I am glad he had had a MRI and its is clear . Aura is a sign of migraine . I have a friend who is on one of the newer drugs . I will find out the name for you and get details from the british national forumalry ( british doctors prescribing bible ) on it . As I recollect it is a nsaid .

Is your doc a migraine specalist ?  if they persist a lumber puncture can be useful to diagnose more unusual causes such as benign inrecranal hypertension . They measure the pressure of the fluid around the brain when they start , termed opening pressure . Under 20 is normal . I suggest this as undiagnosed BIH can make anurysms more likely in the future . I am so sorry about your mum ( hugs ) . The knowledge you have means you and the family can be watched for any signs Wink Discovered before crisis point they are sucessfully treated .

BIH is treated with pressure lowering by removing some fluid from around the brain , termed cerabospinal fluid , at certian intervals .

If the LP is negative - normal pressure and fluid contents - then the exact type of migraine can be diagnosed ( many varients ) and that will dictate treatment choice .

I am glad fluids and antihistamines help Smiley doctors advising against your instnict doesn't help . though many of us have had to learn the hard way   , overdoing it or thinking we can cope on less medications Smiley

Is he computer minded , it would be lovely to see him here as he is getting older Wink I imagine deb can set things up so we are aware of his age and support him but not give advice he isnt able to process .

Mast cells throw out prostglandins , these are well documented to have imoacts regards headaches . This would make sense to your doctor and may help you open discussion about the role of mast cells in his problems .
Salicilates - nsaids , asprin , paracetamol / tylenol - all reduce prostglandins and this is why they are the treatment of choice .

I hope he is feeling better today Wink

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Reply #10 - 03/21/11 at 08:04:58
 
Whoa there Josie, Hold on there girl!!   You're getting a bit carried away!!!   Wink   You're going to really get Ruth all worried!!!


Ruth, the vast majority of migraine's are tension and stress related and by addressing these issues, you can relax some of that vigil.  when Josie mentioned the prostaglandins, they are a very valid point especially is your son is a masto patient.  This means that the majority of his issues are mast cell mediator related and migraines are indeed a RECOGNIZED SYMPTOM of masto, like syncope is and anaphylaxis is and diarrhea is.  If the basic tests have been performed on your son and he's not showing any major issues, then don't worry about many of these other things which can cause a migraine.  You see, many of these things that Josie has mentioned are short term situations and usually create such intense pain that the doctors run after this and find it.  You don't need to go out talkinga bout intercranial pressure and aneurysms, etc. yet.  Those are often medical emergencies and they are what are called acute situations - strong and short termed and recently occurring.  If you son has a history of migraines then these other things, even tumors, can be discarded if he's done the basic scans and tests.   So, don't get worried about many of these things Josie covered.  She's right, they could be worth a consideration, but most of these situations have OTHER SYMPTOMS involved with them that helps the doctor make a diagnosis.  Remember, they rule out the most common things that line up with the symptomatology so if they've not gone doing spinal taps any time recently, that's because there is something lacking for them to think this.

Besides, again, if your son is working with a mast cell disorder, then this is part of the ballgame and the great likelihood is that this is the cause for the migraines.  

So, since the major things have been taken care of, this seems to make sense, but that doesn't mean it's easy to resolve nor to live with and this is what you've got to do is find answers for your son.  

This is worth having your doctors speak with a masto expert, but it's likely, Ruth, that they won't do this until after they've pinned down his disease.   So, you have to work with your doctors to find some means of dealing with this effectively.  They have got to have something that is more effective, Ruth!!  And I do think that Kim's got some great suggestions worth considering, especially since Brie is in this same boat as your son is, Ruth.

I hope this helps!!!

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Reply #11 - 03/21/11 at 12:06:30
 
Hi Lisa ,

I bought up these things because ruth had expressed she was already worried . So by discussing these with her I was making her aware of things that would help her understand how she can protect herself and her son .

I did say the mast cell disease was most likley , but as that is not diagnosed yet , connection should not be assumed .

Lumber puncture is a very good tool in excluding other causes of headaches that have not been identified .  

My post comes with knowledge , not guesssing or summising and I aimed to pass it on in a way which helped Ruth in an area she remained concerned about . She felt fobbed off by an inconsistant doctor , so i was trying to give her the tools to ask appropriate questions to allow her to put her valid serious concerns to rest .

I never write anything I don't think will help Wink

I have a responsibility with my knowledge both personal and professional as a failure to advise when i have knowledge is as reprehensible and giving dangerous advice .

Unfortunately some stuff isn't nice to have to think about , but it still needs to be considered with full knowledge

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Reply #12 - 03/21/11 at 12:30:11
 
Josie,

I wasn't questioning what you know.  I know you've got lots of years of nursing and I don't question a lot of what you say.  My only reason for stepping is what that much of it didn't seem so necessary in that apparently Ruth's son has been working with migraines as a long time situation and most of what you were suggesting would be indicated for an acute situation, so in this sense, not necessary.  And for many patients, when you start talking about lumbar punctures this get really scary and perhaps it just wasn't needed for this case.  

Although we patients know that many of these things are possibilities, we try to not to go off into the more extreme situations since most of these things really aren't ours to have to raise to the doctors.  I think that if Ruth's son had been showing any real need for some of these procedures, he would have had other symptoms or exams showing the need for it and his doctors would have jumped on it already.  When we patients mention these kinds of things to doctors, they begin getting suspicious and wonder where we heard of them for this is something that someone like you who had to work with this often enough would come up with.  For the rest of us they look at us and say, Munchausens?   This is the fine line that many of us have to walk in that we not only don't want to get ourselves scared silly, but we have to be careful as to how we speak with our doctors, especially if they are not familiar with us.  It's all to easy for them to look at us like something is wrong and with all the notice that Munchausens by Proxy cases get today, it would be way to easy for Ruth's doctors to consider this if they keep coming up empty handed.  

I know you mean well, Josie and I wasn't calling your attention on this.  I was only trying to help ease some of Ruths concerns, for you began that post apologizing to her for having frightened her a bit and then you hit in with more right after.  

So, please forgive me my friend if you felt like I was trying to correct you.  I wasn't.  I was merely trying to buffer your post a bit.  That's all.   Like I said, your suggestions were good and they were, but I don't think that this is Ruth's son's situation especially if the doctors hadn't already questioned such situations that would be as acute as those.  

I hope you understand.


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Reply #13 - 03/21/11 at 14:32:23
 
Thanks Lisa and Josie, I appreciate your concern, always appreciate input, even if I or others think it is off on an unneccessary tangent. These forums are fantastic, but even when we explain our stories and gives lots of info, any one conversation is still just a bit of a keyhole view and does not take in the whole picture.  I take it in context, run it thorugh my own filters of knowing the whole picture, well more of it anyway, and in the case of the suggestions about other causes for migraine, I read that knowing that he has been checked out by a neurologist, knowing that his migraines have been long term, and not frequent enough to be considered something acute.  But I will always appreciate people putting it out there.  Even hearing suggestions that you can quickly dismiss can help sometimes, we get things in perspective, clarify what we do know and what we feel confident we aren't dealing with, and in my case I am always looking for clues that help with the diagnostic picture.  And at least I'm not having my wrists slapped for letting him make decisions that I knew were a bad idea, and set him back health wise!  Thank you both for your concern  Smiley
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Reply #14 - 03/22/11 at 01:13:44
 
Hi Ruth and Lisa ,

Ruth , I am glad everything is ok Smiley

Lisa Smiley I understand your point . I am careful and only say stuff that is widely available . I would hate for anyone to be accused of munchaussens . I have has the barely veiled accusations. Its all about balance . I do some times get to the nub of a problem and say what I think that person needs Smiley . Sometimes that can be forthright so the reader gets my point , as ambuiguity can be dangerous at times . What I write can be read differently . Too many yrs as an RN .

I aim to balance what I write Wink  

None of us know each others whole stories .  So I am aware of the balance in which we want to pass information , which may be relevant to that person if not absolutely mast cell , but don't want to scare Smiley .

Onwards me thinks Wink

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