Lisa
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Well, Iīm REALLY sorry to hear how things are going, Kim!! I was hoping that no news was good news!!! I canīt imagine the emotional stress itīs causing you and your family. Itīs hard enough having your sister in trouble but to have your mother as well and a niece on top of it!! YIKES!!
Listen, Kim, as to your Mom and sister, I donīt know how close Brie is to your sister, but I have NO DOUBTS that sheīs close to your Mom. Kim, if you are feeling stressed, just imagine that going on in Brie and multiply it by 100 and this is what you will get if and when your mom passes away. Iīm not saying anything about that happening any time soon and I certainly hope it doesnīt, but if it should youīve got to know ahead of time and PREPARE for what can happen.
Kim, our emotions can create real havoc within us. I know youīve seen Brie go through temper tantrums, but crying can create problems too! I was amazed when I heard some bad news a little while ago and it got me doing some heavy crying and low and behold I found myself right on the edge of anaphyalxis!! I hadnīt realized that crying and the emotions that would provoke it could push us over the edge, but it taught me that itīs serious business.
If your Mom is having serious problems and is in serious danger, Kim, then, you need to prepare for the worst so that when Brie gets the news, youīve got some back up meds to help deal with the triggering itīs going to cause. Ask your doctor for some kind of sedative which will not knock her out, but only take the edge off of her emotions, especially in the beginning right after she gets hit with the news. You already will have your hands plenty full dealing with your own feelings and having your other two kids to also have to consider the very last thing you need is to be rushing Brie to the hospital on top of it all!! So, consider my advice here, for her sake as well as your own, to have some pediatric strength meds just in case. Iīm praying you wonīt need them for some time way distant in the future, but you should have something to help keep her calm in case this happens. Itīs just preventative medicine against the anaphylaxis it can cuase her.
Iīm sorry to hear about the adrenal crisis! This is another reason why you need to be prepared if your Mom should pass, for all of this is going to go haywire with Brieīs emotional response. You should also let your doctor know of what is happening so that heīs also aware of how to respond.
Yes, Kim, we do and can get sick really quickly!! This is part of what leaves us patients on edge, for we can be perfectly fine one moment and the next our world turns upside down! Itīs hard to feel secure this way!!! But thankfully, youīve gained so much understanding and your very hard work has finally payed off!! YOUīVE GOT ANSWERS and this is PERFECT!!!
So, Iīm sorry things are not well with you all. Again, Iīll keep you in my prayers and hope that everything improves quickly!!!
Hugs to you!!!!
Lisa
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