Marcia,
Perhaps you should try the elimination diet. Directions are here on the forum. Basically you stop everything except for a few items. You give your body time to rest and heal, like a week then you only add one thing back in at a time. That way you have total control over what goes in your body and can track how you feel with what you take in. Every few days you only add one item. If you react you remove it and wait a few days and try something else.
It is not fun, but very productive!
For the Kefir, Even if it is not furmented, it is most likey growing histamines. I can't eat anything furmented without have a bad reaction. If you have mast cell issues you may have to give all that up. I do know people on the forum take probiotics, however the last time I took them I had a bad reaction.
Leftovers, and any thing cooked and not eaten NEEDS to be frozen immediately to prevent histamine growth. (esp. meats)
"Foods containing histamine—Aged protein containing foods and fermented foods commonly have increased histamine levels."Here is a link to a good site:
http://www.urticaria.thunderworksinc.com/pages/lowhistamine.htmI really don't know if coconut is high in histamine...I do know it IS high in salicylates, so I stay away from it for that reason.
You asked::: I just remembered that the co2 released when bacteria eat causes natural carbonation
Carbonation plays a huge roll in IC-It can make the bladder hurt. Because it is acidic-I was taught this just last week someone on the forum connected the dots for me! I couln't figure out why I hurt from drinking an all natural soda- with no preservatives...its the carbonation causing the problems. You should look up the connection of IC with carbonation-It is very eye opening.
It sounds like you are doing a lot to try to help yourself heal, however doing the elemination diet would be very basic and give you a little more control.