ruth
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Thanks ladies for your comments. 2walking casts Deborah, that must have been a challenging time. Cameron is 15 and in HS, with exams looming in February, so the issues and motivators are a little different. He has also just landed the main part in the HS play, and rehearsals started this week. Usually he will drag himself to school no matter how bad he is feeling, especially if music or drama are on the schedule. He recently was most annoyed with me for not waking him to go to school the morning after a migraine, when I knew he needed to sleep it off. His reacton this time has surprised me, and tells me he really is needing the extra time, i have not seen him so despondent and despairing before. I do feel like it seems to be emotional as much as physical, and staying at home avoiding the problem isn't going to help, which is why i am finding this a tough call. The school are very supportive, and usually do things like buddies to help, but Cameron really likes to avoid attention and help for anything health related, so the thought of battling through every day exhausted and needing help constantly is awful for him. I will call my doctor today, she is a mother and may have a little more compassion and understanding than a young ER doc, I was just feeling like it was expected he should hit the ground running, and he's just not. He is still going to have to deal with the challenges at school, soon, but maybe he just needs more time, given that he is probably a lot more exhausted than an average teenager.
Thanks foryour encouragement, I appreciate it.
Ruth
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