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05/10/11 at 00:24:51
 
is there anyone from lreland everyone seems to be from the us it would be nice if there was someone so that my sonwould have someone he could talk to when he is older Smiley
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Reply #1 - 05/10/11 at 04:46:32
 
Au contraire! LOL. We have quite an international crowd here. We have some from England, Australia, & Brazil to name a few. You might be the first from Ireland, though! Smiley
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Reply #2 - 05/10/11 at 09:12:02
 
ah well it was worth a shot Smiley
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Reply #3 - 05/10/11 at 09:20:41
 
hey deb,
After some searching I found a hospital in Dublin that not only treats children with Mastocytosis but does research on it too! It is the
Department of Dermatology, Our Lady's Hospital for Sick Children, Crumlin, Dublin, Ireland. I hope this is near you. They seem to have quite alot of DRs with experience in this.. Im hoping it will be a a solution for you Smiley
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Reply #4 - 05/10/11 at 23:33:17
 
that was one of the hospitals william was in when he was sick but because the doc in galway didnt want to let him go they would not take him.
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Reply #5 - 05/10/11 at 23:58:59
 
Deb, it is up to you to make the decisions regading your son's health. If another doctor wants to prevent you from taking your son to a specialist at a certain hospital, you have to say, "Tough luck, we are going." Ultimately the doctors are not the ones living your son's life and they only care to a small extent. You are the only one who will care enough to get your son the very best care, even if it makes you uncomfortable to stand up to a doctor. Remember, they are just normal people like each of us.
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Reply #6 - 05/14/11 at 03:24:36
 
Deborah,

I understand your thoughts and feelings being upset with Deb's situation in Ireland, but a "Mom talk" isn't needed yet, at this point.  

Deb, just so you know, Deborah is our "Mom" around here and she'll stand up and give us all a bit of a talking to from time to time.  And what she's trying to say is that there does indeed come a time when we have no other choice but to make a big fuss with the doctors for they tend to act like God on Earth when it comes to our children and our own health situations.   And there are times when we really must do this in order to get the proper attention.   Our doctors sometimes have their EGOs totally involved in their doctoring and they take it as an affront when they have to send a patient on to someone more capable.  They tend to think it's a reflection as to their capacities as doctors and this is just NOT the truth here.

Deb, I KNOW what your situation is there in Ireland and because Ireland has it's own public health system, you are STUCK in it unless you have private health insurance.   And as to what that's all about, I don't know.  All I know is that the public system is extremely slow unless you have an emergency situation.   My sister lives in Naas and she has to work with the public system and it leaves her absolutely petrified as to what life will be like for her when she's elderly for she's a doctor herself and she doesn't like the way the elderly are cared for in Ireland - ormore like not cared for!!    

Deb, you do NOT have anyone who knows masto in Ireland.  And you are in even worse straights out in County Mayo!   Your best bet is Dr Gillian Murphy at Beaumont Hospital in Dublin.  Her name was passed on to me by Dr. Clive Grattan who is a mast cell authority in England and is the UK's highest authority on mast cell disorders.  He told me that she is not a masto specialist, but she's most likely the very best you are going to find in your country.   Yet, to get to see her is the problem here, Deb.   It's going to take you MONTHS to be able to see her if you can get the reference to her.  

You would be much better off contacting Dr. Escribano in Spain and see if he can help you instead.  He can see what he can do to help you and will often gladly work with your doctors.   And  in this sense, Deb, you are going to have to take some matters in your own hands for your country just does not have the authorities in this disease that your son is needing and if that's the case, then you have to either get some private insurance which will help you with the care of your son, or you are going to have to pay privately for some of these doctors.   This is the "Mom talk" that Deborah was moving towards.   I understand how it is to have to work through the public health system and here in Brazil we also have one.   Yet here in Brazil the public system is so broke that those of us who can afford it have our own private insurance for it's too precarious to depend only upon the public system.   Yet, this is not Ireland's case in that your public system works much better than ours.  However, the problem with your system is that if you don't have a doctor who is willing to support you, then you're STUCK!  And even if you do, it's slower than molassas in a Siberian winter!   Roll Eyes   This leaves you with no choice, you've got to go privately and this is something that many of your neighbors would think is outrageous.   But this is what life with a rare disease forces us to do - we have no choice, for our doctors are even more rare than we patients are and if we are going to get appropriate health care, we have no choice but to seek out who those doctors are and FIND them!

So, please, Deb, put your son's health as the priority here and see how you can help to change this doctor sitaution you are facing.  Your local doctors MUST recognize that this is a very rare disease and that they are just not able to handle it and that you MUST have access to doctors in Dublin!  Dublin is the medical center for Ireland and you are NOT going to find anyone capable of dealing with your boy's problems even in Galway!  I was in Galway only 3 years ago and I saw the size of that city and I can tell you without at doubt that you don't have the doctors you are needing there!!   If Ireland has any specialists who can take care of your son, they're going to be found in Dublin.  

I hope I've not discouraged you.  I hope I've only helped you understand more clearly what your situation is and what you need to do to help your son.   You've got a long stretch before you before he's out of the woods, and thankfully, most masto kids end up growing out of their disease by the time they reach adolescence.  However, getting your son safely to adolescence is the issue right now and this situation of his having to have vaccinations is very important!   So, you need help and you need it NOW, and this is what I hope we can find for you.


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Reply #7 - 09/19/11 at 10:13:51
 
its alright for everyone else to tell me to get private health care but i have 5 kids and not much left over and what is has to go on cloths for them  and my husband works all the hours he can get and i am also a career for my da
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Reply #8 - 09/19/11 at 18:28:45
 
I don't think Lisa was telling you to get private health care.  I think she was saying that is one option to see the doctor she mentioned.  However, she also suggested you might want to contact Dr. Escribano in Spain (by email, I would guess, at first), who is likely willing to work with whatever doctor your son has in order to get him a treatment plan.  He's done this for other patients.

Good luck.  I hope you can get him some relief!

Have you been to the MastoKids website?  It might be helpful.
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Reply #9 - 09/20/11 at 04:39:43
 
Deborah,

I am sorry if I angered you and made you feel that I put you up against the wall.  I honestly didnīt have any intentions of doing that.  Unfortunately, too many of us don't realize just how rare this disease is and how hard it is to find doctors and so we go about in circles with doctors who don't have a clue as to what they are working with and because they don't know, they end up undermedicating us or putting our lives on the line with procedures they don't realize put us in danger!  

My speaking so strongly with you Deborah was to help you understand your situation there in Western Ireland.  I just had to do the same with a Brazilian mother who contacted me the other day.  She got my name from the TMS website and they told her to contact me since I live here in Brazil and have learned who our doctors are.  This mother's little boy sounds much like yours.  He has the bullous form of masto and he's absolutely COVERED in blisters and lesions and had gotten an ear infection and he was on the edge of anaphylaxis.  And she has to live with something you don't, the HEAT!  We're here in our "winter" and we've got 35o C (88) and our humidity has been only about 20% and everybody is feeling it, but we masto patients feel it worse because this kind of hot, extremely dry weather makes us sicker!  The little boy was in terrible shape and the mother was desperate!!  Yet, she's already gone around in tons of circles in her region and was DESPERATE for help so much so that they went to an American site when they don't even speak English and with their barely manageable pidgin English were able to find out about me.  

Well, this mom wrote to me asking for help and I immediately referred her to my doctor.  My doctor works in Rio, a 2 hour drive for me.  This woman lives in the middle of the state of Sao Paulo, without a doubt at least a 15 hour drive for her!  She's a divorced, working mother of two and she didn't hesitate one moment!  I no sooner passed on to her the contact information for my doctor, than she immediately called and arranged for an appointment that next week and was on a plane to Rio and returned home that very same day!!  My doctor had seen the boy, saw that he was seriously undermedicated, adjusted all of the medications his pedatricians had put him on and added a few more and the mother wrote to me that by the time she got home her child was almost like another child for how quickly the proper meds and doses made for her child!  She's since told me that his blister's have calmed down, he's not  putting out any new ones and he's no longer feeling so miserable and crying all the time, but instead is playing around the house as though he didn't have a worry in the world!!  This all happened only last week!  

I didn't have to convince this mom to go to this extreme!  I had put her into email contact with my doctor and figured that since this mother lives so very far away from my doctor that my doctor would work with her through the email until the mother could make it to Rio.  Deborah, we have SO VERY FEW doctors who know mastocytosis that patients come from around Brasil to my doctor!  And Brazil is a whole lot larger than Ireland!  We are DESPERATE for doctors here who know this disease!  And some of us are just so very sick, that our lives are literally on the line!  And when you are talking about children, you've got some serious issues going on there for their entire development is put at risk!

But because it takes us so long to realize that often that this is just how difficult our situations are, we often keep insisting and insisting and going around in CIRCLES.  Deborah, I was only trying to help you realize and avoid this very situation.

I am truly sorry that things are so difficult for you and your family.  I do indeed understand how tough it is!  I would desperately love to get up to Boston to see Dr. Castells and have even set up an appointment.  However, I've just found out that financially it's totally IMPOSSIBLE and the only way I could manage would to work and save up my money over a year or so and then PERHAPS I can get up there!  It costs me at least $2,000 dollars just for the airfare!!  That doesn't include any doctor visits, so I do indeed understand how hard it must be for you all!!

Have you considered writing to this doctor and asking her to help your doctors perhaps?  What is going on with your son?  Is there any way we can help you gain more understanding or help?  Did you write to Dr. Escribano?  He's more than happy to work with your doctors, that I know for a fact!


Again I'm sorry that I upset you.

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