Lori,
Apparently for me I have a reaction to both the act and his "stuff"!
I always premedicate with an H2. I can sometimes time it to throw in my H1 as well. I usually get hives, some times nausia IF I am unstable or have had a reactive day. I will become emotional right after my grand "finale", which I'm sure takes away from my husband's "finale"! I try to hold it together, but can't stop the crying. I think a lot of mast cells live in my brain and control my emotions
I have read so much about it that I shouldn't be suprised, but it is always a suprise to be having a great time one minute and uncontrollable crying the next...Sybil comes to mind.
Also, telling him, no, no your great but I have to go cry and throw up, kind of puts a damper on things!
I told him I would make a good study subject because of how this affects me. It can be like clockwork.
Thankfully this is happening less and less!!!
Since we started using condoms 100% of the time this has not happened at all. Because I am more stable! Overall I am feeling much better!
I think it was a big trigger and I just couldn't put my finger on it.
(that sounds awful and I am blushing and LOL)
I had talked to the doc about it a year ago, but I was reacting to everything from toothpaste to mixed veggies, so I just figured it would get better.
Let me know how your shopping goes! Keep them guessing, buy two boxes!!
Pam