I FULLY AGREE WITH YOU KATE!! DOCTORS ARE MAJOR TRIGGERS FOR ME!!!
Ive put on more shows for my doctors than for almost any other group of people and it's all due to the anxiety of HOW ARE THEY GOING TO DEAL WITH ME??!!!!
Depending upon the doctor, I will take an antihistamine ahead of time to prevent acting up, especially if the doctor has already seen it and knows what we are working with, however, with a new doctor I won't for the place you WANT to act up is there in your doctor's office so that he can see what you are going through! However, this can backfire since they can think it's all emotional!
so go figure!
As to Bernstein, after one of the other members here gave us her review of him I felt unsure as to how he's going to deal with you Kate. Masto was his Dad's forté, but I don't know that the son is like the father. He may be able to recognize a classic case, but he may not with a harder case. You can only try him out to see. Yet, like I said, I really would consider the other two doctors, with Akin winning over Afrin hands down.
If things don't go as you planned with Bernstein, don't write him off - not yet anyway. Try this: Write to Dr. Akin asking him if he will see you. He should reply to you pretty quickly, but even if he doesn't, what you need to say to Bernstein when you see him on Friday is that you are already talking with Dr. Akin and that you have plans to see him but one of the requirements that Akin's group has is that you have a local doctor to work with Dr. Akin. Ask Dr. Bernstein if he would be willing to work with Dr. Akin. If Bernstein shows you any kind of hesitation or negative attitude, then you know that Bernstein is NOT your man.
Why do I suggest this? Because of what direction you need to take to find answers. When we have a case that's not a classic, obvious case, Kate, we patients have no choice but to climb the doctor ladder, each time going higher and higher up. You've already got a connection to the top, Akin, so you've got your foot in the door and I honestly think you should take full advantage and GO SEE AKIN! You can't get any better than him and he fully understands and knows MCAD as well as SM! He is the man responsible for finding proof that IA patients are in truth SM patients and his work is what has reinforced the conviction that MCAD is indeed a real diagnosis. So, Akin is a believer in MCAD so you don't need nor want to go to Afrin - you've already gone to the top. However, you need a local doctor for Akin to work with, this is one of their requirements.
So, the issue here is to find that local support!!! This is why you're going to Bernstein, to be local support. If he shows you a bad attitude, it's not a big deal. You must then find another immunologist/allergist or hematologist who is willing to be that support for Dr. Akin. And I don't think this should be way too difficult to find and the reason why is because many doctors will shy away from a patient like us when they have the "burden" of having to diagnose us. However, this is not the case when they have a higher authority who can instruct them as to our care! Some doctors are more than willing to do this for other doctors. All of my local doctors are MORE THAN WILLING to take my masto specialist's instructions! Hey, they've even taken the suggestions of Dr. Castells and the other specialists outside of Brazil who are supporting me for that fact! My doctors fully recognize the higher authority's superior knowledge and gladly backed down, more than happy to support that higher authority without question!
So, this is what you want to do if things fall through with Bernstein - you want to see Akin, he's the goal here, and find Akin some local support.
This is how I would handle it, Kate. But the decision is yours. It may be that Bernstein can handle your case afterall. You'll only know all of this on Friday.
Let us know how it goes, okay?!
Lisa