I don't know how reactive you are, but if it was me, using bleach or alcohol would just about kill me.
With odors in interiors, sometimes you can bake them out. Close the room up, turn the heat on high, then after a bit, open windows and do a couple of air exchanges, and repeat until the odors are gone.
To try washing it out, I would go for a degreaser that is non-toxic. Safecoat makes good products.
http://www.afmsafecoat.com/products.php?page=5Some products here might be safe. It depends on your sensitivities.
http://www.allergybuyersclub.com/cleaning-supplies.htmlYou are probably looking for a degreaser that will dissolve solvents and fragrances. It isn't common for odors to get so deeply into a hard surface floor. It may be in the grout, in which case you might want to get a grout sealer. Safecoat makes one.
If the odor has gotten absorbed into the walls, you could try wiping them down with soapy hot water. Last resort might be to use a paint like Safecoat paint that will seal odors in the walls.
I'm really sorry. I know how hard it can be when the rooms you live in are not even safe. Good luck, and try testing very small amounts of any cleaner before using it in the whole room.