Ruth,
This thing of dealing with doctors is exhausting! Welcome to the world of the masto patient! I teasingly call myself Lisazilla and imagine all kinds of little white coated doctors scurrying away from me beneath my feet! What a Lisazilla needs most is a DOCTORZILLA! And you know how easy they are to find! HAHA
I FULLY understand your concerns, Ruth because I'm a mother as well. I wish that I could lend you my dermatologist because she's a DOCTORZILLA! She's learning about the MCAD form of masto with me for she never knew it existed either. Yet, she's got an open mind and perhaps you can open up your doctor'd mind as well. My doctor had a really hard time accepting MCAD but she couldn't deny her own eyes for she saw me with the flush and she saw my high histamine levels and she listed to my reports of how I would get sick. Yet she didn't know that masto had a hypertensive form and she hadn't any aggregates of mast cells to confirm anything and so for a long time she remained in doubt! But, God bless her, she knew I had nowhere she could send me for I live in Brazil and she is our highest authority. She was stuck with me and she's not repented of it for although I've challenged her, she's grown with me and now shes returning to university to get her PhD at 57 for my case has opened up a new world of masto she didn't realize existed and it's got her excited!
Yet, I also understand your concerns, Ruth, for I'm very concerned about my eldest son who just turned 20. He's been diagnosed with proctitis and was having intestinal bleeding. My gastrologist didn't think too much of it until I questioned her about what my own case might have to say about this formy case is autoimmune masto and autoimmune diseases are known to run in families and although nobody in my family has a history of an autoimmune disease, because I've shown these markers, I had to question what is going on with my son. So my gastro heard me for proctitis can be autoimmune caused. Sure enough some of the very same markers I've got, he's showing, especially the ANA test. His is 1:320, just as mine is! Well, I've tried to find an immunologist, but nobody wants me and they won't take him either! So I threw this concern of mine at my dermatologist - she's also a pediatrician! She got very concerned about this and had me get my gastro do another endoscope and colonoscope with biopsies taken up and down the line. I had the tested for masto and the findings are astounding! What to the gastro's naked eye looked like nothing, has turned out to be an eosinophilic and lymphocytic colitis! My dermatologist is floored and she's contacted a hematologist at a major university and asked her to take his case for this doctor likes hard cases and we're going to see where it takes us! Although in my case we don't find any eosinophils, we do find the lymphocyte aggregates and so all of this is somehow connected, but how exactly, we don't know, but my dermatologist suspects that my son may be in the inicial processes of developing masto, but without any answers, there's just now way to know!
Ruth, the point here is that you MUST keep pushing for answers! You also must teach yourself about masto!! There is no other option!!! You've got to educate yourself as to this disease so that you can feel less helpless with the doctors and speak to them in a language that they can understand. This will make it so that you don't fell so impotent with them and you will have more confidence in yourself. Doctors don't always like it when a patient knows so much, but they do give more respect to those who can understand what they are talking about. This dermatologist has a typical response and in truth, he is right to certain respect. The disease in the SM form presents much more danger to the patients due to the invasion of the mast cells into the tissues - it causes damage to those tissues. Yet, what doctors of his level don't know is that recent research is showing that there are cases which had previously been considered as not having the neoplasm, have instead been found. Research is beginning to reveal that there are cases where they can't see the neoplasm and very special testing is required to reveal it!
Ruth, don't you think it's time you take your son's case up a level? His case sounds like Kim's daughter Brie. If he has no spots, then he is a VERY RARE case of pediatric masto for the great majority of those kids have spots, so when one or two come along without the spots, the doctors can't recognize it! Your son may not be as sick as others like Brie, but it doesn't mean he's not needing attention. I don't know what your financial situation is, nor where you live, but you need to consider taking him to one of the experts! You've got two choices open to you, that of Dr. Schwartz in Virginia and that of Drs. Castells and Akin in Boston. Kim has been working with the doctors at the Mayo, but not gotten far and so this is why I don't recommend that route for she's looking to Boston now. And there's nobody really on the West coast either so I would recommend that you consider taking your son to one of those three.
Yet what I would suggest to you is that you give me your email in a PM and I'll send you what little information on MCAD and those forms of masto which are not showing the aggregates for your doctor and you print it out and leave it at his office for him. Educate him!
Also, I would also take your son's medications into hand yourself. You said he has GI issues. He needs Ranitidine - 150mg twice a day. This is over the counter medicine and so there's nothing stopping you from giving it to him. That with the other meds he gave you should suffice for now until you see how he responds.
As to the long-term situation of the meds, Ruth, I hear your concerns, but I also hear what the doctor is saying too. For right now, until you can get to a higher level doctor, don't think about this end of it. Antihistamines are wonderful drugs and they cause very few side affects and are not known for causing any real long-term damage. Don't worry about this, not right now. This is a question worth posing to an authority in masto, this lower level doctor isn't going to know the answer which is why he may have blown you off. yet, again, I have to agree with him for although you may be concerned about the long term, you've got to consider the emotional and psychological impact of not being able to be a normal kid can have on your son. I've got my eldest son and daughter who are 21 and 20 and my youngest who is 13. My elder son never had issues growing up, we're only finding them now as he's moving into adulthood and the stresses of the adult world of working and studying and going 24 hours. This stress is what is bringing his illness out into the open. But boys, especially need to be able to get dirty, and sweaty and gross. We girls have different ways about us, but boys must be boys, it's part of their finding their manhood! They have great amounts of physical pent up energy and if you don't allow these boys to be "men" then you can cause a detrimental effect upon their self confidence as well as their manhood itself. There is an excellent book to read by the author Dr. James Dobson calle Binging Up Boys. I'm a school principal and I've given this as required reading for my teachers for women tend to get upset with boys for just being boys and it's not right nor fair! Boys have ants in their pants and can't sit still - it's punishment for them! They need to be active, but this activity works against masto, for this stirs up the mast cells and this is what causes the reactions. If your son is not adequately medicated with antihistamines, he's going to be unable to be a boy and the other boys will call him a wimp and he'll loose confidence in his manhood as a result of this! He won't understand that it's not a question of who he is, but of his body causing him problems. But children don't understand these things and they take it personally and think that it's who they are and they lose confidence in themselves and don't have the maturity to understand that it's the stupid disease and not them!! Your son need to be involved in sports in a situation where the temperature is controlled so that he can be cool - swimming and diving and any kind of water sports is ideal for they will help keep his body core temperature down and stable. He also needs to take extra antihistamines before he gets into any strenuous activity for it will help to deal with the degranulation that the mast cells will release.
So, this, I htink is what your doctor is trying to say to you in that you should not be overly concerned as to the long-term consequences at the cost of his maturing as a young man. This, the developmental damage and emotional damage, far outweighs your concerns of the physical damage being done. Yet this is also something you need to consider and talk over with an authority in the disease and this is why you need to go to either Boston or Richmond because these are very valid concerns you have.
I hope this is a help to you, Ruth! Again, I understand your worries, but sometimes we have to look at the bigger picture here and gain a bit more perspective over all.
Hugs!
Lisa