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Title: PERSONAL NEWS UPDATE FOR DEBBIE
Post by Riverwn on 01/15/13 at 18:02:17

Some of you may already know, but for those who dont, Debbies Father passed last evening. Some of you have PM'ed me to ask where and how to show their love and sympathy for Debbie. She granted permission to use this as our condolence card to her and express our wishes for her here.

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Post by Riverwn on 01/15/13 at 18:24:12

Debbie, I send you wishes of love and sympathy for your dear Father. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs
Ramona

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Post by Anaphylaxing on 01/15/13 at 22:20:34

How horrendous Debbie. I am so sorry. Can't imagine how awful it must be. We are all thinking of you.

Ana

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Post by MarciaB on 01/15/13 at 23:51:42

Hugs. I'm so sorry to hear this. Losing a parent is usually inevidible but so very painful. Hope you manage the greiving process without getting a flare. Tc .. Marcia

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Post by redbird on 01/16/13 at 02:29:39

Ms. Deb

thoughts and prayers coming your way...

redbird

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Post by MGC on 01/16/13 at 06:18:45

Deborah, I was really sorry to hear this. Both my parents are gone, and so I have some idea of what you are experiencing. Take care of yourself too! Good thoughts and prayers to you and your family!

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Post by angelloz on 01/16/13 at 07:03:10

I know this is a very sad time for you. Please rely on the comfort of family and friends ( far and near). Angelloz

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Post by ruth on 01/16/13 at 18:26:23

So sorry to hear this sad news Deborah, love and prayers for you and your family as you grieve and process this sudden loss.

Ruth

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Post by BlueSkies on 01/17/13 at 14:35:55

Dear Deborah,

I know kind words can't stop the pain, but I want you to know my heart goes out to you and your family, and to your children who lost their grandfather.

Please know that we are thinking about you, and are concerned for your well-fare.
BlueSkies

Title: Re: PERSONAL NEWS UPDATE FOR DEBBIE
Post by DeborahW, Founder on 01/17/13 at 15:04:02

Thank you so much for the beautiful messages. What a sweet thing to do, and it is people like you that make this forum so much more than just a forum.

My father passed away on Monday at the age of 91. He went into the hospital for one thing which was quickly corrected but ultimately died from pneumonia which he developed there. We had the funeral today, and it was beautiful with military honors at the cemetery with soldiers from the army playing Taps and folding the American Flag and presenting it to my mother "on behalf of the President of the United States...." That was really moving and just plain cool. My father had fought in the army in WWII and received a Bronze Star Medal, which is the second highest military award for "Heroic or Meritorous Achievement" and is rarely awarded.

We had so many family and friends come over to my house to pay respects to my family following the funeral and through the evening that it was overwhelming (in a good way). I can't even imagine how many people came over and it really helped my family stay cheery as we celebrated his life.

It means so much to me to know that my own little (actually now BIG) forum has gathered as well to wish me well. Many thanks and blessings to you all.

Deborah

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Post by Doozlygirl on 01/17/13 at 18:57:25

Deborah,
May you and your family find peace and comfort at this difficult time.
Lyn

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Post by Lisa on 01/19/13 at 03:38:48

Deb, first of all I want to apologize for not being able to write earlier, I'm having challenges with my internet connection.

I can't tell you how sorry I am for the loss of your father. We're never ready, nor do we ever have enough time to lose those whom we love. I wish there were a quick fix to the loss you feel. It sounds as though your father was a special man and he obviously loved you dearly and that you had a close relationship. So many people aren't as honored as to have such good relationships with their parents and you've been very blessed to have had just such a relationship with your father. Cherish those memories and keep them close to heart, they will serve you well as the years go by. We can't hold on to our loved ones, but their memories are what keep them with us.

I'm praying for you and your family, that your hearts will be comforted in each others love and company.

All my love!

Lisa

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Post by goldielove on 01/19/13 at 14:27:43

wELL i HAVE not been on much but wanted to say I am truly sorry for your loss we just lost my husband's father who had alzhimers a horrible disease it robbed him of his life but in the end as hospice stepped in he was allowed to die with dignity without suffering I am truly sorry for your loss

Title: Re: PERSONAL NEWS UPDATE FOR DEBBIE
Post by Riverwn on 01/20/13 at 20:36:38

I like to think that the Loved One we lost, has gone Home and is celebrating with a wonderful party and with their loved ones and friends that passed before them. One day we might celebrate with them :)

There is an old Tibetan saying that I always loved, it goes something like this;

On the day you are born, you cry and the world celebrates.
On the day you die, you celebrate and the world cries.

Love you
Ramona

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Post by DeborahW, Founder on 01/21/13 at 15:10:35

That is a beautiful saying, Ramona, and each of you have written such lovely messages. Thank you.

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Post by jbean on 01/23/13 at 12:25:53

Sending you and your family hugs and prayers Deb. I believe that our love ones can watch over us more closely than before, and that whatever we are experiencing everyday, they are still there, loving us from heaven, and giving us that extra bit of strength we need. Death does not kill love, that is for sure, it goes on and on till we meet them again. :)

Title: Re: PERSONAL NEWS UPDATE FOR DEBBIE
Post by DeborahW, Founder on 01/23/13 at 12:31:38

Oh gosh, Jill, you are going to make me cry! :) Seriously, thanks sweetie!

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Post by PamH on 01/29/13 at 08:05:40

I'm sorry I am just now reading this Deborah. I am glad that your dad touched so many live and passed as a hero in the military and civian life! It is great to celebrate a life well lived. I remember you spoke highly of your father and seemed close to him. Hopefully you will continue to carry happy memories. I will pray for you, loosing a parent is hard.

((Hugs))